BrainTeaser | Sherma E Benosa

Life is a puzzle; we are the clues, and God is the answer.

Editing our Mistakes in Life



You are doing some minor image editing on your computer screen. There are times you would make some mistake by overcorrecting or undercorrecting something, so from time to time you’d click undo.


Generally, you are happy with how much the image has improved. But as you are about to be finished, your computer suddenly shuts down. You curse the power interruption. Then you curse some more as you realize that you haven’t saved the file!


There are things in life we cannot undo as easily and completely as we would with our computer files. A wrong turn, a hurtful word said to a loved one, a bad move — these we all commit as we walk our life’s journeys, no matter how careful we are in our steps. Once committed, we can no longer undo many of these mistakes, especially because unlike with our computer documents, each thing we do and say has vast repercussions as they involve not just us — the file that we are working on — but also others, the unopened files and computer programs in our system.


So I guess our life’s mistakes are not like our pencil scrawls that can be effectively corrected with an eraser, or errors on our computer works that can be undone with an undo button. But there are effective and reliable tools we can use — APOLOGY and FORGIVENESS. Simply click the APOLOGY button when you have committed a mistake that has hurt a loved one and the words “I’m Sorry” will flash on the other person’s screen. But here’s the tricky part: you have to be truly sorry and you must be prepared not to commit the same mistake again for your APOLOGY to work. Sincerity is definitely an integral part.


When someone clicks the APOLOGY button and the words “I’m sorry” flash on your screen, all you have to do is click back the FORGIVENESS button. It means that you have wholeheartedly accepted the other person’s APOLOGY. But not only that. You also have to click it when someone has sent you back the message “It’s okay. Forget about it,” on your request of APOLOGY. It means that you are also forgiving yourself for your mistake; that you won’t keep revisiting it in the future, feeling so bad having committed it.


And lastly, don’t forget to keep clicking the SAVE button. Going through the whole process of editing — of doing and undoing, of apologizing and forgiving — is useless if you fail to save the LESSON for future use. Let the saved file be a reminder of the healing process you once went through to make yourself better; for you not to forget the lesson; and for others to access and learn from.


//Sherma E. Benosa; 17 December 2007; 3:35pm 

My answer to CPascua question in relation to my Zooming In, Zooming Out article (posted in my main blog.) The question was: When you tinker with photos, you feel safe and confident coz you have the ‘undo button’. In real life, what are your tools you use to correct your mistakes? 


8 comments on “Editing our Mistakes in Life

  1. cliff
    February 27, 2008

    Hey hey Buddy! Another blog éhe?

    Ei, how about ‘create a new document’?


  2. brainteaser
    February 28, 2008

    Hey Buddy! Are you stalking me? 🙂 Joking…

    Thanks for dropping by, Sweetie!

  3. Red Bull
    April 1, 2008

    Quite frenkly one of the best blog posts i have read. This is something I needed to tide over a mess I created in some ones life and hope to clear having read this. May I quote you on mine?

  4. brainteaser
    April 1, 2008

    Hello Redbull!

    I am deeply moved that you like that post. Sure, friend. And goodluck.

    It takes courage and determination to tidy up our own mess. 🙂

  5. sonnetshaven
    July 7, 2008

    You’re absolutely right:) We have tools to correct our mistakes in life because no matter how hard we try, we really can’t live it perfectly.

  6. brainteaser
    July 7, 2008

    Hi Sonnet!

    Hmmm… now an idea sprang up from your comment…

    It’s something I read from somewhere.

    “The eraser is made not for those who make mistakes but for those who want to correct their mistakes…”

    I think we have the tools. It’s up to us if we use them.

  7. sonnetshaven
    July 8, 2008

    Well said:) Life, after all, is not life without a couple of mistakes:)

  8. brainteaser
    July 8, 2008


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